New Year's Reflections

Linda over at SundryMourning has been posting a New Year's quiz for the past several years and has encouraged others to answer it on their own blogs. I did it last year and figured I'd carry on the tradition too by doing it again:

1. What did you do in 2009 that you’d never done before?

I went to Hemingway’s childhood home and museum, the President Nixon Museum and childhood home, the President Hayes Museum, the Frank Lloyd Wright home and studio, Griffith Observatory, the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, the Cleveland Museum of Art, the San Fernando mission, the Morton Arboretum, Cuyahoga Valley National Park, Tampa, and a Hindu wedding ceremony.

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

Not really, but I try not to be hard on myself for not accomplishing things in an arbitrary 365-day window.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

Two of my sister-in-laws gave birth to beautiful nieces.

4. Did anyone close to you die?

Thankfully, no.

5. What countries did you visit?

Sadly, none.

6. What would you like to have in 2010 that you lacked in 2009?

More energy, patience, creative inspiration.

7. What dates from 2009 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

Jan 20 – (crap, I can’t remember if I have the date right) – niece (Avery) was born

Feb 6 – niece (Olivia) was born

May 31 – surprise birthday brunch

Jun 26 – cousin-in-law (Denise) got married

Jul 11 – cousin-in-law (Katie) got married

Oct 1 – moved from Moorpark to Montrose

Nov 15-16 – Rita’s visit

Nov 26 – Dec 2 – Husband’s parents’ visit

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

Finding a cool new place to live and moving was challenging and fun. I also finished some big projects that I think will go on to do very well as printed texts or journal articles. I don't know that I'd call those "achievements" (like great goals or ideals I strove to realize) - maybe accomplishments would be a better word (they were big tasks and I think I did them well).

9. What was your biggest failure?

Gaining weight

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

Had an evil stomach flu

11. What was the best thing you bought?

Nothing exciting. I’ve been trying to be more mindful of the types of purchases I make and to buy only things I really need. (Not Buying It: My Year Without Shopping is on my to-read list!)

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

My husband’s – he got a promotion. Woo-hoo! Well-deserved.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

Glenn Beck – that man is a knob.

14. Where did most of your money go?

To pay off debt.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

Finding a new place to live

16. What song will always remind you of 2009?

“Boom Boom Pow” by the Black-Eyed Peas (I think I’m choosing this one only because it’s the last song I heard on New Year’s Eve before calling it a night.)

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder?

Happier.

b) thinner or fatter?

Fatter – same answer as last year. . . . not a good trend.

c) richer or poorer?

Probably roughly the same.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?

Exercising, taking photos, and keeping in touch with friends.

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?

Complaining, eating, and procrastinating.

20. How did you spend Christmas?

Quietly at home. No holiday travel for us this year – yay!

21. Did you fall in love in 2009?

Same answer as last year - I didn’t ‘fall,’ but my love grew deeper.

22. What was your favorite TV program?

“Arrested Development” – I’ve been watching re-runs and falling in love even though I know I’m going to be so disappointed when I come to the last episode and there aren’t any more to watch or wait for. Although. . . I hear there’s going to be a movie!

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?

No.

24. What was the best book you read?

It’s hard to choose just one, so here are my top choices:

Non-Fiction

The Glass Castle: A Memoir by Jeannette Walls

The House at Sugar Beach: In Search of a Lost African Childhood by Helene Cooper

Another Day in the Frontal Lobe: A Brain Surgeon Exposes Life on the Inside by Katrina Firlik

The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals by Michael Pollan

Fiction

The Elegance of the Hedgehog by Muriel Barbery

The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz

The Road (Movie Tie-in Edition 2009) (Vintage International) by Cormac McCarthy

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?

Grizzly Bear

26. What did you want and get?

A move closer to civilization

27. What did you want and not get?

Nothing (see answer to #11)

28. What was your favorite film of this year?

(500) Days of Summer

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

My parents threw me a surprise birthday brunch with family back in my hometown. I turned . . . 35. Yikes.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Spending more time vacationing, hiking, going to the beach, and pursuing creative projects.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2009?

Practical – I work from home, so most of the time anything comfortable (usually t-shirts and jeans) works for me.

32. What kept you sane?

My flexible job and my supportive husband.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

Neil Patrick Harris – so very talented

34. What political issue stirred you the most?

The Tea Party nutjobs make my brain want to explode.

35. Who did you miss?

My friends and family back east.

36. Who was the best new person you met?

My answer is a team rather than just one person – the editor and the author duo I met in December for a new project I just took on.

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2009.

When you are faced with conflict, compromise is a great goal , . . . but it’s not always possible.

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.

I’m never any good with pulling lyrics out of thin air, so I’ll just choose this song that is apropos for the new year:

“The New Year” by Death Cab for Cutie

So this is the new year,

And I don’t feel any different.

The clanking of crystal

Explosions off in the distance (in the distance)

So this is the new year.

And I have no resolutions

For self-assigned penance,

For problems with easy solutions.

So everybody put your best suit or dress on.

Let’s make believe that we are wealthy for just this once,

Lighting firecrackers off on the front lawn

As thirty dialogues bleed into one.

I wish the world was flat like the old days.

Then I could travel

Just by folding a map -

No more airplanes, or speedtrains, or freeways.

There’d be no distance that can hold us back. [x3]

So this is the new year. [x4]

my answers from last year


How would you respond to these questions? In the comments section here, share your own answers or direct me to your own blog where you've posted them.